Missing in Action

Hello Hello,

Just wanted to give you an update...The ex and I are moving on and I feel better I lost weight and I am looking great :o) I have been taking this time to find out who I am! I have been doing a lot of little mini trips to Deep Creek, MD & Lancaster , PA! Of course now that many people (guys) know that I am single they have been wanting to take me out! I have gone out with a few of them but I am not ready for the single life yet so I have been hiding kind of. I have set standards for my the people I date:

GOD - must have and be involved in church in some shape of form

NO KIDS - No more baby mama drama

DEED/LEASE - must have their own spot

WHEELS - have to have a care how are we going to get around :o)

JOB - JOB is necessary to BE WITH ME (who is going to pay for my dinner and movie)

SWEET - not gay but thoughtful and caring

Patience - I'm moody what can I say

Fun - we have to have fun together

Communicate - have to be able to talk about real world issues

Sounds like a lot but the last two relationships where a dozy! I have to set standards and stick with them and not settle.

I have been hanging out with 3 guys lately:

Guy#1 I will call him Confused Calvin because he says he only wants to be friends but he has made several remarks about me moving with him and us getting married.

1 daughter who is 8th grade, 40 years old, job, Nissan, funny, communicates

Well he we go...So we have gone out to dinner twice and he told me he was 36 years old. Now I am 28 about to turn 29 so I didn't think that the age would matter, I just wasn't ok with him having a daughter in 8th grade. Well ladies and gents he lied about his age he is really 40 i do not want to be in a relationship with anyone who is 10 years older than me. So he lied then we where having a discussion on the phone the other day about raises. He was telling me about why he should get a 8,000 raise and I was telling him why he shouldn't. Either way i didn't want him to be disappointed when he didn't get 8,000 but if he received 4,000. Will this dude hung up on me. He said he didn't but he did that is one of my pet peeves. DO NOT HANG UP ON ME.

Guy#2 I will call him Rookie Ralphy because he has a girlfriend but we still hang out but there are boundaries. He has 2 kids, just started working about a week ago, takes care of his mother, has a girlfriend, has cars, caring did I mention he has a girlfriend. I mostly talk to him on the phone he is good company when it comes to the phone and I make sure at all times he stays in his lane. He takes care of his mother and two little brothers and is more responsible than when we where together. But there is nothing there!

Guy#3 I will call him Lovesick Larry this guy and I have been friends since we have grown up. He has treated me the way I never thought I should be treated. For Valentine's Day I was overwhelmed with emotions when he treated me to a spa day. I got a mani, pedi, facal and a message and then we went to dinner. No kids, kind of shy, job, car, house and loves God. Need I say more!

I have mostly been spend time with the the ladies, which has been fun. We went on a all GIRLS trip to Deep creek and had a ball. "What happens in Deep Creek stays in Deep Creek" sorry I cant tell you more, because they might hunt me down and tie me up to the railroad tracks and wait for a train lol.

My attitude has been great I haven't had many bad days and I am still doing Gods' will.....Every morning I thank him for breath, life and the trials and tribulation that I go through and learn from.